Wednesday, May 2, 2012

Re: [FSHS] Okay I will probably get slammed for this but oh...

But when I see something here am I allowed to...
Brian Pavelko 1:46pm May 2
But when I see something here am I allowed to respond?
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Alisa Allan
Alisa Allan1:37pm May 2
Wouldn't that be the point of your personal page? To talk about whatever it was you wanted to talk about?
Brian Pavelko
Brian Pavelko1:35pm May 2
Who is going to police the policy against politics? The Military is what connects us how are we going to avoid politics? Based on this post I see I have more in common with the folks on the last post than I thought. that is a connection. I think we feel the need to talk about controversial things. Are we not free to do that here?
Alisa Allan
Alisa Allan1:12pm May 2
Wanted to add, yes, there was somewhat of a group decision quite a while back that things political in nature should be kept out of here. If you'd like to post those things and have discussions on them, you should do so on your own personal pages. For those that weren't in here when it was somewhat voted on you wouldn't know, but you do now.

It has nothing to do with 'tolerance', 'acceptance', whatever. It has to do with keeping the focus of this particular group on a neutral level, reconnecting with Wildcats, sharing pictures, your life, talking about FSHS, teachers, reunions, things of that nature etc. Controversial and political things tend to get ugly with a wide difference of opinions about such. No reason to muck up a nice group for high school friends, with battles that have their place, but not here. Again, it's what your personal page is for.
Dave Flick
Dave Flick1:10pm May 2
I would suggest that it's not the topic that should be restricted but the level of respect with which one shares their opinion. Jerks will behave like Jerks no matter what the topic although I do understand the intent and respect you Katie for having the courage to serve it up.
Katie Janulis Villani
Katie Janulis Villani1:09pm May 2
Sorry hit wrong button.... I do NOT have tolerance for the hatefulness that occurs in these "debates". They are not healthy debates. Again this page is supposed to be FREE OF POLITICS. so, yes the whole thread should be deleted. Start a FSHS political page. You are not in charge of educating anyone so being deleted from here would accomplish nothing. And for the record I agreed with your post. And how is it "nosy" to read on my hs page???
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Katie Janulis Villani
Katie Janulis Villani6:01am May 2
Okay I will probably get slammed for this but oh well... After two roofs leaks, generator repair, many drives to miami and its third world drivers, coughing up a lung, bee sting....I think I can handle it!
This page is supposed to be for us to reconnect and reminisce. If you want to post political, religious, things that pertain to ALL your friends wouldn't it be better to post it on your own page??? Yes, I can skip over those posts but why cause problems here? And I am not saying anyone who posts these are looking for fights, they just happen. Friendships like these are for a lifetime and heated opinions here can destroy them. Not saying "you" can't have an opinion but can we keep them on our own pages and not here??? Okay, go ahead and rip me :) I just value your friendships and hate to see the nastiness HERE.

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Re: [FSHS] Okay I will probably get slammed for this but oh...

Wouldn't that be the point of your personal...
Alisa Allan 1:37pm May 2
Wouldn't that be the point of your personal page? To talk about whatever it was you wanted to talk about?
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Brian Pavelko
Brian Pavelko1:35pm May 2
Who is going to police the policy against politics? The Military is what connects us how are we going to avoid politics? Based on this post I see I have more in common with the folks on the last post than I thought. that is a connection. I think we feel the need to talk about controversial things. Are we not free to do that here?
Alisa Allan
Alisa Allan1:12pm May 2
Wanted to add, yes, there was somewhat of a group decision quite a while back that things political in nature should be kept out of here. If you'd like to post those things and have discussions on them, you should do so on your own personal pages. For those that weren't in here when it was somewhat voted on you wouldn't know, but you do now.

It has nothing to do with 'tolerance', 'acceptance', whatever. It has to do with keeping the focus of this particular group on a neutral level, reconnecting with Wildcats, sharing pictures, your life, talking about FSHS, teachers, reunions, things of that nature etc. Controversial and political things tend to get ugly with a wide difference of opinions about such. No reason to muck up a nice group for high school friends, with battles that have their place, but not here. Again, it's what your personal page is for.
Dave Flick
Dave Flick1:10pm May 2
I would suggest that it's not the topic that should be restricted but the level of respect with which one shares their opinion. Jerks will behave like Jerks no matter what the topic although I do understand the intent and respect you Katie for having the courage to serve it up.
Katie Janulis Villani
Katie Janulis Villani1:09pm May 2
Sorry hit wrong button.... I do NOT have tolerance for the hatefulness that occurs in these "debates". They are not healthy debates. Again this page is supposed to be FREE OF POLITICS. so, yes the whole thread should be deleted. Start a FSHS political page. You are not in charge of educating anyone so being deleted from here would accomplish nothing. And for the record I agreed with your post. And how is it "nosy" to read on my hs page???
Katie Janulis Villani
Katie Janulis Villani12:55pm May 2
@ Doreen this was not about you and your life. This is about the NASTINESS that occurs on our hs page. If you read all the comments the dialogue was got quite nasty. I live in south Florida so I live in a huge melting pot and do have tolerance
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Katie Janulis Villani
Katie Janulis Villani6:01am May 2
Okay I will probably get slammed for this but oh well... After two roofs leaks, generator repair, many drives to miami and its third world drivers, coughing up a lung, bee sting....I think I can handle it!
This page is supposed to be for us to reconnect and reminisce. If you want to post political, religious, things that pertain to ALL your friends wouldn't it be better to post it on your own page??? Yes, I can skip over those posts but why cause problems here? And I am not saying anyone who posts these are looking for fights, they just happen. Friendships like these are for a lifetime and heated opinions here can destroy them. Not saying "you" can't have an opinion but can we keep them on our own pages and not here??? Okay, go ahead and rip me :) I just value your friendships and hate to see the nastiness HERE.

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Re: [FSHS] Okay I will probably get slammed for this but oh...

Who is going to police the policy against...
Brian Pavelko 1:35pm May 2
Who is going to police the policy against politics? The Military is what connects us how are we going to avoid politics? Based on this post I see I have more in common with the folks on the last post than I thought. that is a connection. I think we feel the need to talk about controversial things. Are we not free to do that here?
Comment History
Alisa Allan
Alisa Allan1:12pm May 2
Wanted to add, yes, there was somewhat of a group decision quite a while back that things political in nature should be kept out of here. If you'd like to post those things and have discussions on them, you should do so on your own personal pages. For those that weren't in here when it was somewhat voted on you wouldn't know, but you do now.

It has nothing to do with 'tolerance', 'acceptance', whatever. It has to do with keeping the focus of this particular group on a neutral level, reconnecting with Wildcats, sharing pictures, your life, talking about FSHS, teachers, reunions, things of that nature etc. Controversial and political things tend to get ugly with a wide difference of opinions about such. No reason to muck up a nice group for high school friends, with battles that have their place, but not here. Again, it's what your personal page is for.
Dave Flick
Dave Flick1:10pm May 2
I would suggest that it's not the topic that should be restricted but the level of respect with which one shares their opinion. Jerks will behave like Jerks no matter what the topic although I do understand the intent and respect you Katie for having the courage to serve it up.
Katie Janulis Villani
Katie Janulis Villani1:09pm May 2
Sorry hit wrong button.... I do NOT have tolerance for the hatefulness that occurs in these "debates". They are not healthy debates. Again this page is supposed to be FREE OF POLITICS. so, yes the whole thread should be deleted. Start a FSHS political page. You are not in charge of educating anyone so being deleted from here would accomplish nothing. And for the record I agreed with your post. And how is it "nosy" to read on my hs page???
Katie Janulis Villani
Katie Janulis Villani12:55pm May 2
@ Doreen this was not about you and your life. This is about the NASTINESS that occurs on our hs page. If you read all the comments the dialogue was got quite nasty. I live in south Florida so I live in a huge melting pot and do have tolerance
Patrizia Sammartino
Patrizia Sammartino12:11pm May 2
and. somebody pls put the names on that baseball pic and publish the football one!!!
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Katie Janulis Villani
Katie Janulis Villani6:01am May 2
Okay I will probably get slammed for this but oh well... After two roofs leaks, generator repair, many drives to miami and its third world drivers, coughing up a lung, bee sting....I think I can handle it!
This page is supposed to be for us to reconnect and reminisce. If you want to post political, religious, things that pertain to ALL your friends wouldn't it be better to post it on your own page??? Yes, I can skip over those posts but why cause problems here? And I am not saying anyone who posts these are looking for fights, they just happen. Friendships like these are for a lifetime and heated opinions here can destroy them. Not saying "you" can't have an opinion but can we keep them on our own pages and not here??? Okay, go ahead and rip me :) I just value your friendships and hate to see the nastiness HERE.

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Re: [FSHS] Okay I will probably get slammed for this but oh...

I would suggest that it's not the topic that...
Dave Flick 1:10pm May 2
I would suggest that it's not the topic that should be restricted but the level of respect with which one shares their opinion. Jerks will behave like Jerks no matter what the topic although I do understand the intent and respect you Katie for having the courage to serve it up.
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Katie Janulis Villani
Katie Janulis Villani1:09pm May 2
Sorry hit wrong button.... I do NOT have tolerance for the hatefulness that occurs in these "debates". They are not healthy debates. Again this page is supposed to be FREE OF POLITICS. so, yes the whole thread should be deleted. Start a FSHS political page. You are not in charge of educating anyone so being deleted from here would accomplish nothing. And for the record I agreed with your post. And how is it "nosy" to read on my hs page???
Katie Janulis Villani
Katie Janulis Villani12:55pm May 2
@ Doreen this was not about you and your life. This is about the NASTINESS that occurs on our hs page. If you read all the comments the dialogue was got quite nasty. I live in south Florida so I live in a huge melting pot and do have tolerance
Patrizia Sammartino
Patrizia Sammartino12:11pm May 2
and. somebody pls put the names on that baseball pic and publish the football one!!!
Patrizia Sammartino
Patrizia Sammartino12:10pm May 2
I have never really been considered a grownup (I grew a little after my son died in Feb.) but I do enjoy a good discussion, especially if I can send my point across and fount it to be right! :))
James Dillon
James Dillon12:00pm May 2
I just have one question: Who told the grownups where our treehouse is?
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Katie Janulis Villani
Katie Janulis Villani6:01am May 2
Okay I will probably get slammed for this but oh well... After two roofs leaks, generator repair, many drives to miami and its third world drivers, coughing up a lung, bee sting....I think I can handle it!
This page is supposed to be for us to reconnect and reminisce. If you want to post political, religious, things that pertain to ALL your friends wouldn't it be better to post it on your own page??? Yes, I can skip over those posts but why cause problems here? And I am not saying anyone who posts these are looking for fights, they just happen. Friendships like these are for a lifetime and heated opinions here can destroy them. Not saying "you" can't have an opinion but can we keep them on our own pages and not here??? Okay, go ahead and rip me :) I just value your friendships and hate to see the nastiness HERE.

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Re: [FSHS] Okay I will probably get slammed for this but oh...

Katie Janulis Villani commented on her post in FSHS.
Sorry hit wrong button.... I do NOT have...
Katie Janulis Villani 1:09pm May 2
Sorry hit wrong button.... I do NOT have tolerance for the hatefulness that occurs in these "debates". They are not healthy debates. Again this page is supposed to be FREE OF POLITICS. so, yes the whole thread should be deleted. Start a FSHS political page. You are not in charge of educating anyone so being deleted from here would accomplish nothing. And for the record I agreed with your post. And how is it "nosy" to read on my hs page???
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Katie Janulis Villani
Katie Janulis Villani12:55pm May 2
@ Doreen this was not about you and your life. This is about the NASTINESS that occurs on our hs page. If you read all the comments the dialogue was got quite nasty. I live in south Florida so I live in a huge melting pot and do have tolerance
Patrizia Sammartino
Patrizia Sammartino12:11pm May 2
and. somebody pls put the names on that baseball pic and publish the football one!!!
Patrizia Sammartino
Patrizia Sammartino12:10pm May 2
I have never really been considered a grownup (I grew a little after my son died in Feb.) but I do enjoy a good discussion, especially if I can send my point across and fount it to be right! :))
James Dillon
James Dillon12:00pm May 2
I just have one question: Who told the grownups where our treehouse is?
Linda Bradbury
Linda Bradbury12:00pm May 2
& how old are you? need I ask ?
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Katie Janulis Villani
Katie Janulis Villani6:01am May 2
Okay I will probably get slammed for this but oh well... After two roofs leaks, generator repair, many drives to miami and its third world drivers, coughing up a lung, bee sting....I think I can handle it!
This page is supposed to be for us to reconnect and reminisce. If you want to post political, religious, things that pertain to ALL your friends wouldn't it be better to post it on your own page??? Yes, I can skip over those posts but why cause problems here? And I am not saying anyone who posts these are looking for fights, they just happen. Friendships like these are for a lifetime and heated opinions here can destroy them. Not saying "you" can't have an opinion but can we keep them on our own pages and not here??? Okay, go ahead and rip me :) I just value your friendships and hate to see the nastiness HERE.

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Re: [Forrest Sherman High School, Naples, Italy] I think the last people I would trust are the...

if you feel that way then why are you on this...
Cindy Montagnaro McEachern 1:06pm May 2
if you feel that way then why are you on this page ??
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Norva Haskins
Norva Haskins11:15am May 2
James I do not know you personally I am a Wildcat 1973. When we go through life there is good and bad in everything. It is truly a choice of how we use the information. I was bullied in high school. It has not stopped me ftom connecting with ones I was in school with for five years. I will admit there are a few I have not looked for and not sure I want to bit that is out of fear from days long gone. Maybe those people learn more lessons in life and raised their families not to do the things they did to me. But it is how we deal with life now. Walk and be proud of who you are. Yes people will hurt you no matter where they are from. Saying you would not trust us sit down relax let go of the negativity and know no matter who you are there are good people you can trust. Tom and I were in the same class. Although then we did not converse allot but I do know I can trust him. So no matter what it is not because one is a Wildcat it is the individual. Do not lose your faith you are not alone!!!!
Tom Ross
Tom Ross10:55am May 2
Hey Funky, what's going on man. You OK? Gee, I get caught up in school stuff for a few days and I come back and find my friends a little bent out of shape. Somebody giving you grief? I see you've got Nancy, Kevin, Doreen and Linda and Elisa there hanging tight with you... You've got friends. This wildcat is right here for you too. You going to be OK bud?
Linda Bradbury
Linda Bradbury10:21am May 2
Maybe not the last but sometimes indeed this is the case ! Very SAD but TRUE ! Reality is REAL ! Get a "GRIP" FOLKS ! Civility, Logic, Reason & RESPECT would be a Healthy start! I'd rather wage PEACE !
Doreen Liebenow Glotzer
Doreen Liebenow Glotzer9:53am May 2
:(. I'm here for you
James Dillon
James Dillon2:45am May 2
Many ones I could trust, but many were not worthy.
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James Dillon
James Dillon2:16am May 2
I think the last people I would trust are the mates from FSHS.

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Re: [FSHS] Okay I will probably get slammed for this but oh...

Katie Janulis Villani commented on her post in FSHS.
@ Doreen this was not about you and your life....
Katie Janulis Villani 12:55pm May 2
@ Doreen this was not about you and your life. This is about the NASTINESS that occurs on our hs page. If you read all the comments the dialogue was got quite nasty. I live in south Florida so I live in a huge melting pot and do have tolerance
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Patrizia Sammartino
Patrizia Sammartino12:11pm May 2
and. somebody pls put the names on that baseball pic and publish the football one!!!
Patrizia Sammartino
Patrizia Sammartino12:10pm May 2
I have never really been considered a grownup (I grew a little after my son died in Feb.) but I do enjoy a good discussion, especially if I can send my point across and fount it to be right! :))
James Dillon
James Dillon12:00pm May 2
I just have one question: Who told the grownups where our treehouse is?
Linda Bradbury
Linda Bradbury12:00pm May 2
& how old are you? need I ask ?
Linda Bradbury
Linda Bradbury11:59am May 2
Patrizia has a very logical view. You too "Uncle Funky" (this time..tee-hee) . Where is the "ACCEPTANCE" level here ?
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Katie Janulis Villani
Katie Janulis Villani6:01am May 2
Okay I will probably get slammed for this but oh well... After two roofs leaks, generator repair, many drives to miami and its third world drivers, coughing up a lung, bee sting....I think I can handle it!
This page is supposed to be for us to reconnect and reminisce. If you want to post political, religious, things that pertain to ALL your friends wouldn't it be better to post it on your own page??? Yes, I can skip over those posts but why cause problems here? And I am not saying anyone who posts these are looking for fights, they just happen. Friendships like these are for a lifetime and heated opinions here can destroy them. Not saying "you" can't have an opinion but can we keep them on our own pages and not here??? Okay, go ahead and rip me :) I just value your friendships and hate to see the nastiness HERE.

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