Patricia I think that shows you that there are a lot of people who aspire to the don't kiss, don't tell rule and others who aspire to the kiss and don't tell rule. We aren't in H.S. and people don't want to injur anybody. Discretion is the Better Part of Valor and I have a great deal of respect for that. Having communicated that I had this chemical attraction to every girl in our school in 8th grade... In 9th grade I experimented with those relationships and succumed to the peer pressure of my buddies when they were upset that my girlfriend was taking all of my time. I broke up with her and injured her heart. I never forgave myself for that and hardly dated for years afterward... To think that I was so irresponsible within that moment. Decades later I appologized to her, which was a privilege to do... I remember being tempted to test the moment with another and walked away from her rather than do damage.
These sisters of ours, so precious, I would not injure one of them or dishonor their precious gift having had done so once to have touched a heart and taken it lightly. And even to this day I have this sense of honor for them and would so guard their dignity with my whole hearts events. I know to some of my brothers that may sound foolish or dumb and maybe some of my sister would think so too... But I was created to be a settler, not a pioneer, created to raise up the children not father those I would not know.
Perhaps some of the hesitancy here is because I am not the only settler and there are those among us who see deeply into the spirit of the people we've been given our desire is to hold them all of our lives and to never injure one of them. Perhaps in this way we have the privilege to loving our sisters to the ends of our lives and never losing them.
Forgive me for waxing serious here, Perhaps I just a foolish old romantice and the stories of Prince Valiant and Arthur and the Round table, Robbin Hood and Good King Harry, Henry the Fith found too much room in my heart and the heart of my good brothers who thought not wise to kiss and tell and lose them sacred moment, having spoken of and lost forever.
